August is National Wellness Month, a time to reflect on the many ways we can support our health and well-being. When we think about wellness, we often picture healthy eating, exercise, preventive care, or finding ways to reduce stress. But wellness is much broader than physical health.
For individuals living with a serious or life-limiting illness, wellness can take on an entirely different meaning. It may mean being comfortable in your own home, spending meaningful time with family, having your wishes respected, finding peace, or simply enjoying a favorite song, meal, conversation, or memory.
For caregivers, wellness can mean having the support and resources needed to care for a loved one without losing sight of their own emotional and physical needs.
At Royal Hospice of Scottsdale, we believe caring for a person means caring for the whole person. Hospice is not only about managing physical symptoms. It is also about supporting emotional, mental, spiritual, and social well-being while helping patients and families navigate an important stage of life with dignity and compassion.
This National Wellness Month, we invite families to consider a more complete definition of wellness, one that focuses on comfort, connection, meaning, and quality of life.
What Does Wellness Mean During Hospice Care?
Wellness is often associated with improving physical health or preventing illness. But when someone is living with a serious illness, the priorities may change.
Instead of asking, “How can we make this person healthier?” families and care teams may begin asking:
- How can we help this person feel more comfortable?
- What brings them joy or peace?
- What matters most to them right now?
- How can we help them remain connected to the people they love?
- What fears or concerns are they experiencing?
- Are there emotional or spiritual needs that should be addressed?
- How can we support the family caregiver?
- How can we honor the person’s wishes and preferences?
These questions recognize that a person’s quality of life involves much more than physical symptoms.
Hospice care takes a holistic approach to wellness by considering the physical, emotional, social, and spiritual needs of both the patient and their family.
Physical Wellness: Comfort and Quality of Life
Physical wellness remains an important part of hospice care. When someone is living with a serious or terminal illness, symptoms such as pain, shortness of breath, nausea, fatigue, anxiety, or difficulty sleeping can affect everyday life.
Hospice focuses on comfort and symptom management rather than pursuing treatments intended to cure the underlying terminal illness.
A hospice care team may work with patients and families to identify symptoms and develop an individualized plan of care. The goal is to help patients remain as comfortable as possible and enjoy the time they have with the people and things that matter most.
Physical wellness can also involve simple everyday comforts.
For one person, it might mean sitting outside for a few minutes in the morning. For another, it could be listening to music, enjoying a favorite food when appropriate, watching a beloved television program, or resting in a familiar room surrounded by family photographs.
Wellness does not have to mean doing more.
Sometimes, wellness means creating an environment where a person can rest comfortably and experience moments of peace.
Emotional Wellness: Making Space for Feelings
Serious illness can bring a wide range of emotions.
Patients may experience fear, sadness, anger, frustration, loneliness, uncertainty, or even relief. Family members and caregivers may experience many of these same emotions while also dealing with the responsibilities of caregiving.
There is no single “right” way to respond emotionally to a serious illness.
Some people want to talk openly about what they are experiencing. Others may prefer quiet companionship. Some may want to reminisce about the past, while others may prefer to focus on the present.
Emotional wellness begins with allowing those feelings to exist without judgment.
Family members can support emotional wellness by simply being present. You do not always need to have the perfect words. Sometimes listening is more meaningful than trying to solve a problem.
You might say:
“I’m here with you.”
“You don’t have to go through this alone.”
“Would you like to talk about what’s on your mind?”
Or simply sit quietly together.
Hospice professionals can also provide emotional support and help patients and families navigate the many feelings that can accompany serious illness and end-of-life care.
Mental Wellness: Reducing Stress and Uncertainty
Mental and emotional wellness are closely connected, but mental wellness also involves helping patients and caregivers manage stress, uncertainty, and the many decisions that can arise during serious illness.
For families, hospice can sometimes feel overwhelming at first. There may be questions about medications, symptoms, care routines, advanced directives, changes in condition, or what to expect as an illness progresses.
Having a knowledgeable care team available can help families feel more prepared.
Education is an important part of hospice care. When families understand what may happen and know who they can contact with questions, they may feel less alone and more confident in making decisions that reflect their loved ones’ wishes.
Mental wellness can also involve creating moments of calm.
Simple practices may include:
- Listening to calming music
- Reading together
- Looking through family photographs
- Practicing quiet breathing or relaxation
- Spending time outdoors when comfortable and safe
- Limiting unnecessary noise and interruptions
- Maintaining familiar routines when possible
- Talking about positive memories
- Giving the patient opportunities to make choices about their daily routine
Small moments of familiarity can provide comfort during a time when many things may feel uncertain.
Spiritual Wellness: Finding Meaning, Peace, and Connection
Spiritual wellness can be an important part of holistic hospice care.
Spirituality is personal and does not necessarily mean religion. For some people, spirituality is deeply connected to their faith. For others, it may involve nature, relationships, personal values, music, art, reflection, or a sense of purpose.
A person facing the end of life may have questions about meaning, forgiveness, relationships, legacy, or what comes next.
Some may find comfort in prayer or religious traditions. Others may want to talk about their life experiences, reconnect with loved ones, or reflect on the people and experiences that have shaped them.
Hospice care can provide opportunities for these conversations and support.
Spiritual wellness may look different for every individual, which is why it is important to ask what matters to the person rather than making assumptions about their beliefs or needs.
A meaningful conversation, a favorite prayer, a familiar hymn, or time spent with a loved one can sometimes provide tremendous comfort.
Social Wellness: Staying Connected
Human connection remains important throughout every stage of life.
A serious illness can sometimes make it more difficult for a person to participate in social activities. Fatigue, pain, mobility challenges, or other symptoms may limit outings and visits.
But staying connected does not necessarily require leaving home.
Family members can create opportunities for connection in simple ways:
- Schedule short visits rather than long gatherings.
- Arrange phone or video calls with loved ones who live far away.
- Share family photographs and memories.
- Watch a favorite movie together.
- Listen to music.
- Invite grandchildren or other family members to visit when appropriate.
- Celebrate meaningful milestones in simple ways.
- Ask the patient about stories from their childhood or younger years.
Even brief moments of connection can help reduce feelings of isolation and remind someone that they remain an important part of their family and community.
For hospice patients, social wellness is not about how many activities they can participate in. It is about having meaningful opportunities for connection that fit their energy level and preferences.
Caregiver Wellness Matters, Too
When we talk about hospice wellness, it is important not to overlook caregivers.
Family caregivers often devote significant time and energy to supporting a loved one. They may help with meals, medications, transportation, personal care, household responsibilities, appointments, and emotional support.
Over time, caregiving can become physically and emotionally exhausting.
Caregivers may also feel guilty about taking time for themselves.
It is important to remember that caring for yourself is not selfish. Caregiver wellness is part of supporting the entire family.
Taking a break, asking another family member for help, getting enough rest, eating regularly, staying hydrated, and making time for a few minutes of quiet can make a meaningful difference.
Caregivers should also pay attention to their own emotional health. Feelings of sadness, frustration, anxiety, exhaustion, or helplessness can be difficult to manage alone.
Asking for support is a sign of strength, not failure.
Hospice teams can help families understand what resources and support may be available to them throughout the hospice journey.
Wellness Does Not Have to Be Complicated
One of the most important things to remember during National Wellness Month is that wellness does not have to involve major lifestyle changes.
For someone receiving hospice care, wellness may be found in very small moments.
It might be:
- A cup of tea in a favorite chair.
- A phone call from an old friend.
- Holding a spouse’s hand.
- Listening to a favorite song.
- Looking through a photo album.
- Sitting outside and feeling the sunshine.
- Sharing a favorite family story.
- Watching grandchildren play.
- Enjoying a favorite meal when appropriate.
- Having a quiet conversation.
- Taking a comfortable nap.
- Hearing the words, “I love you.”
These moments may seem simple, but they can carry tremendous meaning.
Hospice care helps families focus on what matters most to the individual rather than measuring wellness solely by traditional health goals.
Creating a Personal Wellness Plan
Every person is different, which means there is no universal approach to wellness during hospice care.
Families may find it helpful to think about a loved one’s preferences in several areas.
Physical Comfort
What helps your loved one feel comfortable?
Consider their preferred room temperature, positioning, favorite foods or beverages when appropriate, music, lighting, and daily routine.
Emotional Needs
What helps your loved one feel heard and supported?
Would they like more conversation, quiet companionship, visits from certain people, or opportunities to reminisce?
Social Connections
Who does your loved one enjoy spending time with?
Consider family members, friends, neighbors, former coworkers, members of their faith community, or other meaningful relationships.
Spiritual Needs
Are there spiritual or religious practices that are important?
Ask whether your loved one would like prayer, visits from a spiritual leader, religious music, readings, or simply quiet time for reflection.
Meaning and Legacy
Are there stories, traditions, photographs, letters, recipes, or memories your loved one would like to share?
Legacy activities can provide meaningful opportunities for families to connect and preserve memories.
A wellness plan does not need to be complicated. It simply needs to reflect the person.
The Importance of Dignity and Choice
One of the most meaningful aspects of holistic hospice care is preserving a person’s sense of dignity and choice.
Serious illness can sometimes make people feel that many decisions are no longer within their control. Offering choices whenever possible can help restore a sense of independence.
Instead of making every decision for a loved one, consider asking:
“Would you rather sit in the living room or bedroom?”
“Would you like music or quiet?”
“Would you like company right now?”
“Is there anything that would make you more comfortable?”
These small choices can communicate an important message:
Your preferences still matter.
Hospice care is centered on the individual and their goals, values, and wishes.
Wellness and the Arizona Community
For families in Scottsdale and throughout the greater Phoenix area, summer can add another consideration to comfort and well-being.
Arizona’s heat can make outdoor activities difficult, particularly for older adults and individuals living with serious illness.
During the hottest parts of the day, families may choose to focus on indoor activities and keep the home environment comfortable. If a patient enjoys spending time outdoors, shorter periods during cooler parts of the day may be more appropriate, depending on their condition and care team’s recommendations.
Families should always follow the patient’s individualized care plan and speak with their hospice team about concerns involving heat, hydration, medications, or changes in symptoms.
Wellness is about adapting to the person’s needs rather than expecting the person to adapt to a particular definition of wellness.
When Hospice Becomes Part of the Wellness Conversation
Families sometimes associate hospice exclusively with the final days of life. In reality, hospice can provide support for eligible patients and families during an important period when comfort and quality of life become primary goals.
If someone has been diagnosed with a life-limiting illness and the family is beginning to consider hospice, it can be helpful to have an early conversation with a healthcare provider or hospice professional.
Learning about hospice does not mean a family has given up.
It means learning about available support.
A hospice team can help families understand what services may be available, answer questions, and discuss how hospice can support the patient’s individual needs and goals.
A Holistic Approach to Hospice Care
For many families, having that information early can provide reassurance and help them make informed decisions when the time is right.
National Wellness Month gives us an opportunity to broaden the way we think about health and well-being.
For someone living with a serious illness, wellness may no longer be defined by a treatment plan, a number on a scale, or the ability to complete a certain number of activities.
Instead, wellness may mean:
Comfort.
Peace.
Connection.
Dignity.
Meaning.
Choice.
Time with the people who matter most.
At Royal Hospice of Scottsdale, we understand that every patient and family has a unique story, set of needs, and definition of what makes life meaningful.
A holistic approach to hospice care recognizes the whole person, not just the diagnosis. It considers physical comfort while also making room for emotional, mental, spiritual, and social needs.
And it recognizes that caregivers need support, too.
Making Wellness Personal
This August, National Wellness Month is a wonderful reminder that wellness can be personal, simple, and meaningful.
For a person receiving hospice care, the goal may not be to do more. It may be to experience more comfort in the moments that matter.
It may be a familiar voice, a favorite song, a cherished memory, a peaceful afternoon, or time surrounded by family.
Sometimes, the most meaningful form of wellness is simply being able to live each day with as much comfort, dignity, and connection as possible.
If your family is considering hospice care for a loved one, speaking with a hospice professional can help you understand your options and determine what type of support may be appropriate.
Royal Hospice of Scottsdale is here to help families navigate the hospice journey with compassion, respect, and individualized support.
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